Paul O. Dillon, Attorney at Law

Why Create a Pet Trust?

Media mogul Oprah Winfrey has a trust fund for her dogs, as revealed in 2007 by a source to an Australian women’s magazine. How much she left to her beloved animal companions is thought to be in the millions, according to a recent article from Pets Radar, “Oprah’s dogs will inherit a $30 million fortune—here’s why.” However, you don’t need to be a billionaire to want to care for your pets using a pet trust.

A pet trust is a legally binding contract used to specify money to care for a pet in case of incapacity or death of the human owner. The trust is funded to care for the animal’s life and should include specific instructions for how the pet will be cared for. An experienced estate planning attorney can create a pet trust to comply with your state’s laws.

When creating a pet trust, consider how much money will be needed to pay for the pet’s care, considering the type of pet, their age, life expectancy and whether they have or might have health issues in the future. If you own multiple pets, the pet trust must address all their needs.

The funds are used to cover veterinary bills, food, grooming, housing and compensation, if needed, for a caretaker. The trust will also need to include a contingency provision in case the primary caregiver becomes incapacitated or can’t care for the pets and someone else needs to step into the role.

The pet trust should also include plans for what happens when the pet dies. Do you want them to be cremated or buried, and what do you want to happen to any remaining funds in the trust? The people who love their pets enough to create a pet trust often decide to leave any remaining funds in the trust to a local animal shelter.

A common question in creating a pet trust is this: should the same person who is taking care of the pets also oversee the assets in the trust? The trustee oversees the assets and pays the caretaker. The problem is, if the caretaker doesn’t use the funds to care for the pet as you’ve outlined in the trust, who will monitor the money or the care of the pet? Many people prefer to have two different people involved, just in case.

Can you simply ask an adult child to take care of your beloved pet if you become sick or if you die before the pet? In theory, the answer is yes. However, your adult child or anyone you ask to care for your pet is under no legal obligation, unless you’ve created a pet trust and they’ve agreed to take on the role of either caretaker or trustee or both.

If you don’t have someone to care for your pet, check with your local animal shelter. No-kill shelters often have arrangements where a fee or donation is used to ensure lifetime pet care for a companion animal.

Your estate planning attorney will know how to create a pet trust to care for your furry companions, providing you with the peace of mind knowing they won’t end up in a shelter or living on the streets.

Reference: Pets Radar (April 4, 2025) “Oprah’s dogs will inherit a $30 million fortune—here’s why”

What Is the Difference between Equal and Fair Inheritances

Deciding how to disperse a lifetime of assets among heirs is a common issue seen by estate planning attorneys. The idea of being “fair” to family members generally refers to a wish to divide the estate equitably, according to a recent article from The News-Enterprise, “Fair isn’t same as equal when dividing estate.”

Assets are commonly distributed by giving each person an equal share. If a beneficiary has died, their share passes to their descendants, or the living heirs divide the decedent’s share.

In some cases, gifts already made to heirs need to be taken into consideration. Let’s say one child has received a $18,000 gift to help purchase a house. The parents may deduct this amount from the beneficiary’s overall inheritance to keep asset distribution fair to the other children.

If one of the children has supported a parent, provided housing, or devoted time and effort towards their care, the estate plan may give the caregiving child more to recognize their dedication. Caregiving adults give up a great deal to care for aging parents, sometimes delaying their careers or losing out on career or social opportunities. This seems like a reasonable response. However, it may engender resentment by non-caregiving siblings. An estate plan should be very clear about this distribution method, and a letter of intent may be useful in case of any court challenges.

When the family includes disabled individuals, distribution may be based on their short- and long-term needs. For instance, an adult child who is unable to support themselves may be the recipient of assets through a Special Needs Trust. If they inherit assets directly, they may become ineligible for government benefits. A Special Needs Trust requires the help of an estate planning attorney to ensure that the SNT is created properly.

When adult children have achieved different levels of financial success, parents can also provide more for the children who need more help. A conversation with all the children should occur so they understand why one sibling is receiving more than another.

Blended families face challenges when distributing assets between stepparents and stepsiblings. Assets are usually divided between spouses, and then the spouses distribute their shares of the estate to their children. Marital trusts may be needed to ensure that no child is disinherited, and an experienced estate planning attorney will be able to structure the estate properly to achieve this goal.

Suppose spouses in a blended family have significantly different levels of assets. In that case, the couple may leave additional assets to the spouse's heirs with a higher net worth. How assets are distributed will also depend on whether or not the couple has merged their finances and whether or not each has agreed to waive their spousal claim on each other’s estates.

An estate planning attorney works with families to decide how they wish to distribute their wealth and guides the process to make it as conflict-free as possible. Fair is not always equal. However, planning and full transparency can build bonds between family members.

Reference: The News-Enterprise (Dec. 7, 2024) “Fair isn’t same as equal when dividing estate”

Can Unmarried Couples Plan for Aging Together?

Choosing to marry or not marry in one’s later years has implications beyond whether the couple should send out holiday cards together. For older unmarried couples, navigating health care needs becomes a serious issue, as explained in a recent article from The New York Times, “For Older Unmarried Couples, Caregiving Obligations Can Be Murky.”

The article begins with the example of a couple who have been together for nearly two decades, maintaining separate residences but mainly living in the woman’s home. She began developing memory loss and fell several times. One family member finds the presence of her partner comforting. However, her partner acknowledges concerns about problems in their future. He spoke with her family and suggested they move into a continuing care retirement community where care is adjusted as needs change.

The woman’s daughter objected. She holds power of attorney and makes many decisions for her mother, which doesn’t bode well for their future together. For now, the couple remains in their homes and relies on home care aides. However, this may not last long.

There’s no road map for the aging process for unmarried couples or couples who maintain separate residences. However, as the number of unmarried partners among older Americans grows, this may change. Census data from 2023 shows nearly 400,000 Americans over age 75 are living together without the legal protection of marriage.

Remaining single has its advantages. Passing along an estate to children is far easier if the couple doesn’t combine their finances through marriage. They don’t risk losing pensions or Social Security benefits if they marry, nor do they need to take on the other person’s debts. For seniors in America, medical debt and the cost of long-term health care are financial risks.

Unmarried partners need to be proactive about estate planning to protect themselves and prepare for the future. Each should have an estate planning attorney prepare advance directives, health care proxies, durable powers of attorney and wills. Having these documents prepared will help the individuals clarify their wishes in terms of medical care in the event of serious illness or incapacity.

The potential conflict between unmarried partners and biological children should be treated with great seriousness. A beloved partner will not have any say in their loved one’s medical care, unless they are named as the health care proxy. An adult child who resents an unmarried partner could keep the couple apart if one were hospitalized or moved to a nursing facility.

Older unmarried adults need to embrace estate planning and not put off taking care of this task. A tendency to procrastinate could leave their long-term loved partner out of any aspect of their lives if this is not addressed.

Caregiving responsibilities often drive decisions in a crisis if no advance planning has been done. If the couple is living in the home owned by one member of the couple and the owner has to go into a nursing care facility, the healthy partner could be evicted.

Having an experienced estate planning attorney create an estate plan, including the power of attorney, healthcare proxies and other important documents, protects couples so they can help each other and make decisions before a crisis strikes.

Reference: The New York Times (Nov. 10, 2024) “For Older Unmarried Couples, Caregiving Obligations Can Be Murky”

Can You Protect Property and Qualify for Long-Term Care with Medicaid?

Long-term care costs keep many seniors and their adult children up at night, with good reason. However, with the right long-term care and asset protection plan, you can protect your home and other assets so you can pay for any supplemental needs and protect a well spouse. A recent article from The National Law Review, “Protecting and Preserving Property When Paying for Long-Term Care” provides details.

Your primary residence remains an exempt asset if you plan to return home. An exempt asset is the term used to describe any asset not countable by Medicaid when considering your eligibility. The property is also exempt if your spouse, minor child, or disabled child lives in the home.

If you have a child who has lived at home with you for at least two years and has provided care that allowed you to remain home, as opposed to being in a nursing home, the property may be transferred to the child, who is then considered a “caregiver child.”

Another permitted transfer of the primary home is to a disabled child. This transfer is allowed by Medicaid and doesn’t lead to any penalty period for Medicaid. Check with your estate planning attorney to ensure that this asset's transfer doesn’t conflict with any Special Needs planning or make the child ineligible for any means-tested government benefits.

Medicaid has a five-year look-back period, when any transfers of any property, as noted above, are not allowed and result in your being ineligible for Medicaid benefits. Many people think Medicaid won’t find out about moving assets, including retitling homes or accounts. However, this is not a good idea in this age of data connectivity.

A Medicaid Asset Protection Trust is commonly used if created five years before applying for Medicaid benefits. The family home, investment accounts and other assets are retitled to be transferred into the trust. The assets within the trust are protected and exempt from Medicaid. This allows the well spouse to continue to live in their home and enjoy using the assets saved for retirement or plan for these assets to be passed to the next generation.

Suppose the need for Medicaid benefits arises and no planning has been done. In that case, some home sale proceeds can be protected by using Medicaid Compliant Annuities and creating supplemental needs trusts. An estate planning attorney will review your situation and determine the best options for each situation.

Reference: The National Law Review (June 20, 2024) “Protecting and Preserving Property When Paying for Long-Term Care”

Caregiving and Estate Planning Provides Peace of Mind for All Generations

If your goal is to keep the farm, ranch, or small business in the family, planning, including estate planning and caregiving, is the number one strategy to making it happen. Families may dissolve the farm or business without advance planning to pay for long-term care expenses. A recent article from AgWeek, “Caregiving plans can provide peace of mind for farming and ranching families,” explains what needs to be done.

Part of the issue is that most ranchers and business owners won’t qualify for Medicaid because they own a significant asset. Having to sell off something they’ve worked their entire lives to build is often a result of no planning.

If you have a long-term care insurance policy, it needs to be carefully reviewed to determine what conditions need to be met for benefits to be paid. For example, most policies have a “waiting period,” so you’ll need to plan how to pay for caregiving during the months before the policy kicks in.

There’s also confusion about the difference between Medicare and Medicaid. Medicare is health insurance for medical expenses, while Medicaid is usually used for long-term care and caregiving needs. However, Medicaid is a needs-based program. An estate planning attorney can help the family determine what needs to happen in advance, whether the goal is to protect the farm, ranch, or small business while helping the aging parent become eligible for Medicaid.

Estate planning includes planning for incapacity, which can occur at any time but is more likely as we age. Suppose the individual hasn’t completed a power of attorney, healthcare power of attorney, and other medical directives. In that case, the family will need to go to court to obtain conservatorship or guardianship to take over the person’s financial matters and make healthcare decisions on their behalf. An estate planning attorney can help the family prepare the documents and create a plan.

Having an estate plan in place is also another means of protecting the family’s assets from elder abuse. Everything needs to be documented, and records need to be well-organized so every family member knows where documents are, where assets are and the plan for the inevitable events of aging.

Meeting with an estate planning attorney to create the last will and testament, power of attorney and all other planning documents can minimize the stress and costs involved. Without planning, everything becomes far more complicated, costly and stressful for all concerned.

Reference: AgWeek (May 14, 2024) “Caregiving plans can provide peace of mind for farming and ranching families”

What Is the Purpose of a Pet Trust?

You don’t have to be a billionaire to want to protect your pets. However, you do need to plan for their well-being, if something happens to you. Since pets are considered property, they can’t inherit money to be used for their care. Instead, as explained in a recent article from Barron’s Penta “Future Returns: Why Fido Needs a Trust” titled owners can create pet trusts to protect them, if something happens to their humans. With close to 70% of American households having pets, pet trusts have now become mainstream.

Owners need to designate a reliable caregiver, just as they would designate a guardian for minor children. If you don’t have family members or friends who love animals, contact a local animal rescue group to learn if they have a life-long care program for animals. Many do, with programs incorporating Charitable Remainder Trusts to cover the cost of the pet’s care.

If you want a friend or relative to care for your pet, make sure they are willing and able to do so.  You should have another person as a back-up, in case something happens to them. Circumstances change, and someone who wants to take care of your pet now may not be able to in future years. How long you need to plan for depends upon the lifespan of your pet.

An experienced estate planning attorney can create a pet trust. Because state law enforces conditional distributions from the trust, the care of your pet can be enforced in court, if necessary. The pet owner names a beneficiary, the caregiver and funds the trust with enough assets to care for the pet.

The pet owner also names a trustee. They are a responsible person who will be in charge of distributing funds and making sure they are used for the pet’s well-being. The trustee also makes sure that the pet is healthy and being properly cared for, following the directions of the trust.

Your estate planning attorney will know what your state’s laws are regarding pet trusts, which varies from state to state. For instance, Pennsylvania requires a pet trust to end when the last pet in the trust dies, while other states may limit the trust’s length to 21 years. For dogs and cats, 21 years is a reasonable period of time. However, for other pets, like birds who can live to 100 years, this won’t be long enough.

You’ll need to fund the trust, making sure that there’s enough money to cover the pet’s needs throughout their lifetime. You may also consider the caregiver’s needs, depending on circumstances. How much is reasonable will depend upon the type of pet and the lifestyle of the caretaker. An apartment dweller caring for an elderly cat will need a different level of resources than a person tasked to care for a young horse.

Some states limit the amount of money in a pet trust and will penalize overfunding. Making sure your pet trust is appropriately funded may limit the likelihood of its being challenged.

Reference: Barron’s Penta (April 18, 2022) “Future Returns: Why Fido Needs a Trust”

Special Needs Planning

When a family includes a disabled individual, sometimes referred to as a “person with special needs,” estate planning needs to address the complexities, as described in a recent article titled “Customize estate plan to account for disabled beneficiaries” from The News-Enterprise. Failing to do so can have life-long repercussions for the individual.

This often occurs because the testator, the person creating the estate plan, does not know the implications of failing to take the disabled person’s situation into consideration, or when there is no will.

The most common error is leaving the disabled beneficiary receiving an outright inheritance. With a simple will, or no will, the beneficiary receives the inheritance and becomes ineligible for public benefits they may be receiving. The disruption can impact their medical care, housing, work and social programs. It may also lead to the loss of their inheritance.

If the disabled beneficiary does not currently receive benefits, it does not mean they will never need them. After the death of a parent, for instance, they may become completely reliant on public benefits. An inheritance will put them in jeopardy.

A second common error is naming the caregiver as the beneficiary, rather than the disabled individual. This causes numerous problems. The caregiver has the right to do whatever they want with the assets. If they no longer wish to care for the beneficiary, they are under no legal obligation to do so.

If the caregiver has any liabilities of their own, or when the caregiver becomes incapacitated or dies, the assets intended for the disabled individual will be subject to any estate taxes or creditors of the caregiver. If the caregiver has any children of their own, they will inherit the assets and not the disabled person.

The caregiver does not enjoy any kind of estate tax protection, so the estate may end up paying taxes on assets intended for the beneficiary.

The third major planning mistake is using a will instead of a trust as the primary planning method. A Special Needs Trust is designed to benefit a disabled individual to protect the assets and protect the individual’s public benefits. The trust assets can be used for continuity of care, while maintaining privacy for the individual and the family.

Planning for individuals with special needs requires great care, specifically for the testator and their beneficiaries. Families who appear to be similar on the outside may have very different needs, making a personalized estate plan vital to ensure that beneficiaries have the protection they deserve and need.

Reference: The News-Enterprise (March 15, 2022) “Customize estate plan to account for disabled beneficiaries”

What Happens to a Pet when Owner Dies?

Pet trusts are a legally binding arrangement in which the donor (the person creating the trust) formally outlines their wishes for how they want their pet to be cared for.

A few more people are involved in a pet trust, according to the article “’Paws-ing’ to plan: How you can ensure your pet’s future well-being with pet trust planning” from The Gilmer Mirror. A trustee oversees the way trust funds are dispensed, a caretaker, who is in charge of the pet’s care and an enforcer, who makes sure the donor’s wishes are followed. Donors may appoint a caretaker of their choice, or work with an agent to find someone suitable for their pet.

Unlike an informal promise to care for a pet made by a well-meaning friend or family member, the pet trust is legally enforceable, giving it more "teeth” than a verbal promise. There is nothing to stop the person you leave your pet with from doing whatever they wish with the pet, from leaving the pet at a shelter to selling the pet. With a trust, all parties are bound to use the money for its intended purposes and to follow pet care instructions.

What can you ask your pet’s caretaker to do? Anything you feel is necessary. It can be as basic or as detailed as you wish. The pet could be cared for as they were by you, with the same kind of food, attention and affection. They can also continue to be seen by the same veterinarian, if one is named in the trust.

Pet planning has become increasingly popular, as more people see their pets as members of the family. However, pet trusts are not just for house cats or dogs. Work animals, show animals, specially trained service and companion animals and animals used for breeding are also protected by pet trusts.

A pet trust could ensure the future of a highly trained show jumper, or to ensure a working dog ends up at a farm where she continues to herd sheep.

Pet trusts are especially important for people with service animals. A blind person who has bonded with a seeing-eye dog may only wish another blind person to inherit a seeing-eye dog. The trust could ensure that animals who have been trained to provide emotional support, or to detect health conditions like seizures, should go to individuals with these same challenges.

Individuals who live with highly trained service animals should consult an experienced estate planning attorney along with the organization that trained the animal to ensure a pet trust is created within the scope and requirements of the organization, as well as the wishes of the owner. The organization may be better able to place the animal, while adhering to the pet trust’s requirements.

A pet trust helps protect our beloved animal companions and provides peace of mind for their humans. It should be part of your overall estate plan and should be updated regularly.

Reference: The Gilmer Mirror (March 23, 2022) “’Paws-ing’ to plan: How you can ensure your pet’s future well-being with pet trust planning”

How Does the Caregiver Tax Credit Work?

Family caregivers who support loved ones are eligible for several tax credits and deductions. It’s not just for taking care of parents; other relatives may be covered as well, notes a recent article “If you are a caregiver of elderly parent, you may be eligible for tax breaks” from The Oklahoman. The IRS has different options and certain requirements must be met.

When a dependent mother lives with an adult child who pays for more than half of her living expenses—food, housing, utilities, health care, repairs, clothing, travel, and similar necessities—and if the mother’s gross income is under $4,300—the child can claim the mother as a dependent. The tax credit, which is nonrefundable, can be as much as $500.

When siblings are cooperative and everyone contributes to mom’s expenses, only one can claim the mother as a dependent. It has to be the adult child who pays for at least 10% of support costs. The IRS calls this a “multiple support agreement.” There’s information on the IRS website to help you figure out if you qualify for a “Credit for Other Dependents.”

Medical deductions are another credit. If an adult child claims a parent as a dependent and also pays medical, dental, and/or long-term expenses that are not reimbursed by insurance, the expenses in excess of more than 7.5% of the adult child’s Adjusted Gross Income (AGI) can be deducted.

For example, if the adult child’s AGI is $80,000, anything after the first $6,000 of the parent’s medical bills—7.5% of the AGI—could be deductible. If the parent’s medical bills were $8,000, $2,000 would be deductible. When calculating the total, include medical expenses for you and your spouse.

AGI thresholds vary by state, so if your state has a lower AGI, you might get a break on state income taxes, even if you do not qualify on federal income taxes.

What about in-home care or adult day care costs? They might also be covered, under the Dependent Care Tax Credit, and could be worth as much as $4,000. To qualify, the dependent parent must have been physically or mentally incapable of taking care of themselves and have lived with you for more than six months.

There is also the possibility of using funds from a Health Savings Account (HSA) or a Flexible Savings Account (FSA) from your employer to pay for a loved one’s medical expenses, as long as she is a qualified dependent. One caveat: if you use the funds from an HSA or FSA to pay for a dependent’s medical costs, you cannot take a tax deduction on the expenses.

Reference: The Oklahoman (Jan. 25, 2022) “If you are a caregiver of elderly parent, you may be eligible for tax breaks”

Should Inherited Money Be Equally Split Between Family Members

Leaving an equal amount to adult children works for many families, but equal is not always equitable. In those cases, leaving different amounts to heirs can lead to irreparable breaks within the family. A recent article titled “The Unequal Inheritance: It Can Work, or It Can ‘Destroy Relationships’” from The New York Times examines the problem and some of the solutions. There are times, however, when even the fairest of decisions doesn’t heal the “Mom always liked you best” hurt, imagined or otherwise.

Unequal inheritances can trigger sibling fighting after a parent dies, some of which end up in court, especially if one child thinks that a parent was being overly influenced by the sibling who ended up with the bigger inheritance.

Parents need to explain their decision to each child, individually and as a group, or even seek mediation. Many estate planning attorneys encourage a family meeting, where everyone is in a neutral location, to discuss the parent’s wishes and estate plan. In some cases, the children understand when one of the siblings is disabled or has a lower earning potential.

Another reason for unequal inheritances is to balance things out when one child received significant support that others did not need. Equalization of gifts can be documented in an estate plan, as heirs may need to be reminded of the parent’s generosity at an earlier date. If this isn’t addressed, the siblings who received less help during the parent’s lifetime may resent their decision to give equally.

What about the caregiving child? Some parents decide to give extra to the adult child who became their primary caregiver. That usually takes the shape of the family home, a larger cash distribution or life insurance proceeds. However, siblings don’t always agree on how this is handled. Some will see the child’s decision to care for their parents as manipulative.

Blended families with stepchildren run into complications often. The growth in stepfamilies is a big part of why Americans 50 and older left their children unequal bequests, which more than doubled from 16 percent in 1995 to 35 percent in 2010, as reported in a study from the National Bureau of Economic Research.

At the same time, the study also found that the longer the relationship, the more likely the parent would leave stepchildren inheritances equal to that of a biological or adopted child.

Even when parents intend to split the estate equally, failing to plan for taxes can leave children with different inheritances. This happens when parents leave different types of assets to different heirs.

If a parent left a $500,000 IRA to one child and a $500,000 taxable brokerage account to another, the child who received the IRA will pay federal income taxes up to 37 percent on every withdrawal, which now must be done within ten years of the death of the parent. The child with the brokerage account would have to pay a long-term capital gains tax of up to 20 percent, when an appreciated asset was sold.

Generally speaking, IRA and other tax deferred accounts should have all children as equal beneficiaries. These accounts are usually outside of the probate estate. A house may be left in a trust or the will, with directions for the house to be sold and all assets divided equally.

There is no way around it—inheritances are seen as a proxy for love, and any unequal distribution will be felt as such, even by the most rational of people. Speak with your estate planning attorney to learn how to avoid these scenarios and consider holding a family meeting to make sure your intentions and the reasons behind your intentions are made clear to all concerned.

Reference: The New York Times (Feb. 19, 2021) “The Unequal Inheritance: It Can Work, or It Can ‘Destroy Relationships’”