Paul O. Dillon, Attorney at Law

Optimize Estate Planning and Update Financial Baseline to Secure Your Future

Revisiting estate planning and financial strategies in the first quarter of the year can yield long-lasting benefits, according to a recent article from Kiplinger, “10 Ways to Refine Your Financial Plan for a More Secure Future.” No matter how busy you are, these ten steps are a good use of your time.

Conduct an annual financial review. Gain a clear view of your financial situation to make informed decisions. Is your net worth the same as it was last year? How have your assets and liabilities changed? Has recent market volatility or a large purchase impacted your overall financial situation? An objective look from a bird’s-eye view shows whether you’re still on track to reach your goals or if you’re retired, ensuring that you’re still on the right path.

Review your philanthropic plans. Whether you’re donating a wing to a local hospital or making monthly donations to local charities, review your giving over the last twelve months. Are you taking advantage of tax benefits through strategies like Donor-Advised Funds (DAFs), or should you consider using Charitable Trusts instead? Consult with your estate planning attorney to ensure that your generosity also benefits you and your family if that is an objective.

Review budgets and spending habits. Having discretionary income doesn’t necessitate a free-for-all. Understanding income and spending is fundamental to financial health at any level. Examine last year’s expenses and separate out one-time costs, such as installing a new roof or incurring large medical bills. Once you’ve identified spending habits, map out a plan for the rest of the year. Treating money with intention is more rewarding.

What’s your illiquid compensation? If you establish a 10b5-1 plan, you can execute stock transactions during open trading windows, mitigating legal risk and balancing your corporate responsibility with personal priorities. This type of plan allows you to schedule trades in advance and align transactions with both near-term and long-term goals. Know the value of any non-cash compensation and how much of your net worth it represents.

Is it time to rebalance your portfolio? If you haven’t rebalanced your portfolio in the last year, now is the time to do so. Be sure your asset mix is still what you wanted. The nature of markets and fund managers makes it impossible to avoid shifts entirely.

Maximize tax-advantaged accounts. Don’t leave money on the table. Accounts like 401(k)s, IRAs, HSAs and 529 plans all work to maximize tax advantages. However, it is only if you’re making contributions strategically. If your income is too high for direct contributions, or if you have a lower income, consider Roth conversions for IRAs and 401(k) plans.

Check your risk management. Insurance isn’t as sexy as investment portfolios. However, the protection is worth the investment. Make sure your wealth is protected with the correct insurance and a good estate plan.

Review estate planning and make annual exclusion gifts. Your estate planning attorney can explain how using your annual exclusion can help reduce estate tax exposure and benefit your loved ones. You can give $19,000 to as many people as you want annually without triggering any gift taxes or reducing your lifetime estate tax exemption. Making these gifts earlier in the year allows for more growth over time, making it a smart move for generational wealth transfers.

Tax planning season. If your finances are complex and your assets extensive, tax-saving strategies need to be revisited annually, and the first quarter is the most likely time. Let’s say you expect to have significant capital gains; charitable giving or tax-loss harvesting earlier in the year can help offset those tax liabilities.

Talk with your family about money. If your goal is to leave a legacy, you’ll want to discuss your values, philanthropy and creating a legacy with your family regularly, as well as stewarding wealth across generations. A habit of regular check-ins about finances will help establish a shared vision for both short-term and long-term goals.

Reference: Kiplinger (March 6, 2025) “10 Ways to Refine Your Financial Plan for a More Secure Future”

Seniors can Protect Health and Financial Security

Even though the calendar says March, winter hasn’t left yet. According to a recent article, “Winter safety for seniors: How to protect yourself from liability,” from News Tribune, an unfortunate event can occur at any time. What can you do to protect yourself?

Start by executing essential estate planning documents. People think “estate planning” is an elaborate way of saying “last will and testament.” However, this isn’t so. They also believe that if there is no will, their children or spouses will inherit everything. That’s not true either.

Accidents and illnesses can strike anytime, so everyone needs to have these estate planning documents in place. At the same time, they can address problems, like incapacity and disability.

Everyone should have a Power of Attorney for Healthcare, a Power of Attorney for Finances, a HIPAA authorization, a Last Will and Testament and a Living Will. Once your estate planning attorney creates Power of Attorney forms, an authorized agent can handle your financial and health matters.

When you grant someone the power to act on your behalf, you don’t lose the ability to act yourself. This differs from guardianship or conservatorship, where the court removes your authority and independence, giving another person power over your life and/or financial matters.

A HIPAA Authorization gives healthcare providers and insurance companies the legal authority to speak with another person about your care. Without this written authorization, properly executed by an estate planning attorney, your family may be shut out of critical decisions.

If you suffer from a terminal condition and cannot explain your preferences for medical treatment, your Living Will provides end-of-life instructions for your healthcare representative (granted through a Power of Attorney for Healthcare or Medical Proxy) and your medical providers.

If you have adult children, ensure that they also have these documents and an estate plan. Having a plan before you need it prevents you from adding further stress and costs to a personal crisis.

Protecting yourself from risk and the unexpected takes a little time and effort. However, when the need for these documents arises, you and your loved ones will be glad they are in place. Talk with an experienced estate planning attorney today to plan.

Reference: News Tribune (March 3, 2025) “Winter safety for seniors: How to protect yourself from liability”

What are the Biggest Mistakes People Make with Estate Plans?

Ask any estate planning attorney for a horror story and step back as they come flooding out. Moms who leave millions to a veterinarian to care for a beloved cat or uncles who grabbed and kept a half-million-dollar insurance policy intended for a son are just a few examples.

When your estate plan isn’t properly prepared, many things can go wrong, according to a recent article from Kiplinger, “Wills Gone Wild: How to Avoid Estate Planning Disasters.” Assets can end up with the wrong people, or beloved children can be disinherited entirely. A bungled do-it-yourself will can lead to a distant cousin inheriting your entire estate, while a life-long partner ends up homeless and impoverished.

If you intend to protect those you love, you’ll need to sit down with an estate planning attorney and create a last will and testament and other estate planning documents. Without a will, you can be sure family discord will follow your passing.

Aretha Franklin provides one lesson on what happens when there’s no formal will. Not one but two handwritten or holographic wills were found in her home in Detroit after she died. One, dated 2010, was found in a locked cabinet, while the second was found under a couch cushion, dated 2014. There were four sons, and all disagreed about which one was valid. The matter went to court, with a judge ruling the 2014 will was valid. Not all states accept holographic wills and leaving more than one copy around the home doesn’t guarantee anything but a family fight and legal expenses.

Many people are testing online wills. However, the unintended consequences are very costly for loved ones. One father decided he would create a will without an estate planning attorney. When he died, instead of dividing his estate equally between three adult children, all his property and assets went to the children and the grandchildren. Each of his three children had children, so what he intended to be a simple three-way split ended up being divided into many small gifts.

Second and subsequent marriages can complicate estates. Estate planning attorneys all have stories about remarried people who want their estate to go to the new spouse but forget to take care of their children from the first marriage. When the second spouse inherits the entire estate, it’s easy enough to rewrite the will, and the deceased spouse’s kids are disinherited. A surviving spouse is under no legal obligation to maintain an old will or to give assets to stepchildren. Estate planning attorneys know how to use trusts and other strategies to protect the surviving spouse and the biological children.

Pets are often part of estate planning disasters. One attorney tells the tale of a client estranged from her only child, a daughter. She wanted to leave everything in her estate to her cats. However, something went very wrong, and her veterinarian inherited $3.5 million. In this case, the vet was an upstanding citizen and worked with an estate planning attorney to ensure any monies left after the death of the cats went to animal charities. However, there was no legal requirement for the vet to do so.

Elderly people are often preyed upon by their trusted caretakers. One horror story concerned two elderly men who lived together and shared a home care nurse. When one of the men was hospitalized, the caretaker and her husband came to the home and exploited the second man. The caregiver convinced the elderly man to make her a beneficiary of a $500,000 CD and joint owner of a lakefront vacation home.

When it comes to estate planning, the only way to avoid a nightmare legacy is to meet with an experienced estate planning attorney and have an estate plan created. Estate planning attorneys have seen more wild tales than you can imagine and can ensure that you don’t become one of them.

Reference: Kiplinger (Jan. 29, 2025) “Wills Gone Wild: How to Avoid Estate Planning Disasters”

Estate Planning Is More than a Last Will and Testament

Most retirees know they should have a last will and testament. However, surprisingly few have updated wills. A recent article from msn.com, “6 Legal Documents That Most Retirees Need—but Don’t Have,” says only about 52% of retirees have a last will, and most lack other crucial documents needed to protect themselves and spare their loved ones additional grief. The documents discussed below should be part of your estate plan. If you don’t have them, consult with an estate planning attorney in your community, as they are state-specific.

Medical power of attorney or healthcare proxy. This document lets a person of your choosing make medical decisions on your behalf if you cannot. When would you need a medical POA? If you are terminally ill, seriously injured, in a coma, receive a diagnosis of dementia, or at the end of life, you need a POA. Not only does this document let you decide who will make these decisions, but it also alleviates tremendous stress, including a lifetime of second-guessing, by your loved ones.

Advanced directive or living will. You will have the opportunity to express your preferences for end-of-life care if you can’t communicate because of an illness, accident, or another condition preventing you from responding. The advanced directive doesn’t go into effect until you are unable to communicate. Use this document to express what kind of care and treatment you want and don’t want during an emergency and the exact circumstances in which you want your choices to be honored.

Financial power of attorney. People with a financial POA have chosen the person they trust most to act on their behalf when it comes to paying bills, running a household, overseeing investments, or even selling a family home. Here’s what most people don’t know about a POA: you can, and should, make it as personal as possible. If you want your sister to pay your bills but cannot make charitable donations, your POA can include this. If you don’t have a financial POA, loved ones will need to go to court and petition for guardianship, which is costly and time-consuming.

Funeral and burial arrangements. No one likes to think or talk about dying, funerals, or memorial services. However, if you don’t tell your loved ones what you want or make arrangements for yourself, loved ones or funeral homes will make those decisions for you. Whether you care about what service you have or don’t want a service at all, creating a plan will be a kindness to your family.

HIPAA waiver. Few people seem to be aware of the importance of a HIPAA waiver, which creates a lot of headaches for loved ones. If you haven’t signed a HIPAA waiver, doctors and insurance companies cannot speak with your designated person about your healthcare and insurance coverage. If you become incapacitated without a HIPAA waiver, your family won’t be able to receive updates on your care. The laws enforcing HIPAA are extremely restrictive, so this is a good document to have in place long before it’s needed.

Trusts. When you create a trust, you create a legal entity to own property, taking it out of your taxable estate. Trusts allow assets to pass directly to beneficiaries, and depending upon the type of trust you use, there are many different types, and you may gain substantial tax advantages. Your estate planning attorney will know which type of trust is best for the circumstances.

Everyone should have a last will and the aforementioned documents to protect themselves and their loved ones. Life happens, and this kind of planning is invaluable. Make an appointment to meet with an estate planning attorney to create your own estate plan. If it’s been more than three to five years since you’ve had your estate plan reviewed, it’s time to take care of it.

Reference: msn.com (Jan. 13, 2025) “6 Legal Documents That Most Retirees Need—but Don’t Have”

Millennials and Gen Z Need Estate Plans Now

People with modest assets, young adults and parents should all have estate plans to protect themselves while they’re living, protect their children and provide a means for transferring assets of any size to heirs of their choosing. This is estate planning in a nutshell, with details furnished in a recent article from yahoo! finance, “Why millennials and Gen Z should have a basic estate plan.”

Most people first think about estate planning when they have children. It’s a good reason, as a will is used to name a guardian who will raise the children if both parents should die. Otherwise, a court will decide who should raise the children, and it isn’t always a family member. However, this is far from the only reason to have a will.

All adults should have two essential documents: a durable power of attorney and a healthcare power of attorney, also known as a healthcare proxy. These documents give other people, referred to as “agents” or “representatives,” the legal power to act on behalf of the adult if they cannot do so. We don’t like to think about becoming incapacitated. Nevertheless, it happens, and when it does, having these estate planning documents makes it possible for another person to act on your behalf.

If there is no power of attorney, the family will need to go to court to have someone named as a guardian of the incapacitated person. The process is both stressful and costly. Having a POA is far easier. When you have an estate planning attorney create a POA, you also get to name the person you want to be in charge. The court may not choose the person you would have wanted.

Wise parents have their children sign a healthcare power of attorney when they turn 18. Unless this happens, the parent may no longer be part of the newly-minted adult’s healthcare, including talking to doctors, discussing health insurance issues and being involved with decision-making.

If it seems unnecessary for an 18-year-old to have a last will and testament, there are more than a few reasons for doing so. First, an 18-year-old who has been accumulating cryptocurrency might have assets to protect. In the same way, parents don’t have the right to make medical decisions for an 18-year-old; they don’t have any say over their property. If the young adult has bank accounts, digital assets, car loans, or student loans, the parent will be better protected if there is a simple will. If there is no will, the grieving family will have to go through probate, the court process of determining who will receive the young person’s assets.

Having a young adult think about having a will is a good life lesson. As they age, they must update their plan to reflect life’s milestones. Estate planning is an evolving process similar to owning and maintaining a home.

Young adults working and with retirement accounts should be mindful of who they name as their beneficiary on retirement accounts, insurance policies and any other financial account allowing a beneficiary to be named. These assets don’t pass through probate but go directly to the designated beneficiary. Keeping a list of these accounts and who was named as a beneficiary is also good practice for young adults.

Younger adults who tackle estate planning early on are setting themselves and their families up for success in the future. Many estate planning attorneys start working with one generation and are happy to advise their children as they grow into adulthood.

Reference: yahoo! finance (Nov. 18, 2024) “Why millennials and Gen Z should have a basic estate plan”

Three Key Steps for Estate Planning When You Don’t Have Children

In many ways, estate planning is relatively simple for people who have children. They expect their adult children to be involved in their care as they age and are usually named beneficiaries of their wills. For those who don’t have children, according to a recent article from The Wall Street Journal, “Estate-Planning Priorities for People Without Children,” estate planning becomes a bit more complicated.

When there are no children, seniors need to face serious questions to prepare for aging, from who will be in charge if I become sick to who is going to be in charge of my funeral. There are three essential matters that single people without children need to address.

Plan for Long-Term Care. One study determined that the average 65-year-old will need about $150,000 for healthcare during retirement. For people with no children, long-term care insurance is something to purchase in mid-life, starting around 40 years old. If no next of kin is available to provide care, the policy can cover some of the costs of home care or care in a nursing facility.

Fewer companies sell long-term insurance today than in the past. However, policies are still available. Many are sold as hybrid policies, incorporating life insurance and long-term care coverage. Others allow policy owners to take out at least part of the money contributed as cash. Some even have a death benefit. Others have an inflation rider to protect against rising costs.

Determine who you can count on for help. Without children, people generally turn to their spouses if they have one, siblings, nieces, or nephews to take on roles like Health Care Proxy or Durable Financial Power of Attorney. The people chosen for these roles can also be friends as long as they are reliable and trustworthy.

If no family members are available, consider a friend or neighbor, preferably someone younger. Often single agers name other single agers for important roles, which leaves them all vulnerable to the possibility of disability or death of their trusted decision makers. Other options include doctors, estate planning attorneys, financial advisers, or a social worker to serve as healthcare proxies. A bill-paying service might be in an excellent position to serve as a Durable POA as long as the relationship is established before it’s needed and the service is ethical.

Power of Attorney and many similar estate planning documents are state-specific, so meet with an estate planning attorney in your state to be sure you have the documents you need and that they are valid. Discuss the roles of the people you pick to eliminate any surprises. A secondary person should consistently be named if the primary POA is unavailable or chooses not to take on the role when the time comes.

Make the executor’s life easier with detailed preparations. This applies to people with children, as well as childless people. Check your beneficiary designations on financial accounts, including life insurance, investments and retirement funds. Write down your wishes for funerals or other types of memorial services. Have an estate planning attorney create a will and a trust, if appropriate, and tell the person you’ve chosen as executor where these documents can be found. Don’t make a difficult job harder by making them search through paper files and your computer to figure out your estate.

Your estate planning attorney will be able to provide guidance about how to address the issues accompanying a child-free life. These extra steps will give you considerable peace of mind.

Reference: The Wall Street Journal (Nov. 12, 2024) “Estate-Planning Priorities for People Without Children”

Estate Planning 101: What You Need to Know

Have you done any estate planning? If you have a will, kudos to you! You’re ahead of so many people and celebrities who die without a will, creating unnecessary expenses and stress and risking family fights over assets large and small. However, a recent article from Kiplinger, “The Basics of Estate Planning,” reminds us of the importance of regularly updating estate planning documents and beneficiary designations.

Failing to do so could put heirs in a financial and legal tangle after you die or create unexpected tax consequences. You might also leave your assets to a wrongful heir, and your family might be unable to do anything about it.

What makes up the foundation of an estate plan?

The will directs your wishes to distribute assets to heirs upon your death. It’s not as straightforward as expected, so talk with an estate planning attorney to create a valid will. For instance, you don’t want to include anything you don’t want the public to know, like account numbers or passwords. The will becomes a public document when it is submitted to probate court.

A living trust, sometimes called a revocable trust, is used to own assets in a more private manner. You can put cash, securities and other assets into a trust, and the trustee, who you name to manage the trust, will be in charge of distributing assets after you die.

A living will, sometimes called an advance healthcare directive, outlines your wishes for care if you become incapacitated or for end-of-life care. This includes medical decisions like keeping you alive via artificial means, from respirators to feeding tubes. Letting your family know your wishes will spare them a lifetime of guessing what you want.

Powers of Attorney for finances and healthcare (also known as a healthcare proxy) names others to act on your behalf to manage financial and healthcare matters. Without these documents, your family may have to go to court to manage your bills and be part of your healthcare decisions.

Today’s estate plan also includes digital assets. You can designate a person as your Digital POA so they can access digital assets like emails, websites and social media accounts. They’ll need to be someone you trust and who can navigate the digital world.

All these documents need to be reviewed regularly to ensure that they align with your wishes and are current concerning any changes in the law. Most estate planning attorneys will advise you to update your documents whenever there is a big change in your life like birth, death, divorce, or a move to a new state. They should also be reviewed every three to five years as laws change.

Assets also pass through beneficiary designations. These are commonly retirement accounts and insurance policies, which ask you to name a person to receive the assets upon your death. These assets don’t go through probate. People often forget to update these documents, and old friends and ex-spouses find themselves with a surprise windfall.

It’s essential to update estate planning documents and beneficiary designations on the death of a spouse. This is not likely the first thing on your mind when grieving the loss of a loved one, but it is necessary.

The rules for inherited IRAs have changed. Therefore, your heirs need to be prepared for the impact, especially if your estate includes a large IRA. As a result of the SECURE Act of 2019, adult children or non-spouse heirs of a traditional IRA must empty the IRA within ten years of the original owner's death. During the ten years, heirs must take annual withdrawals and pay taxes on those withdrawals as income. The alternative is to take the entire IRA at once and pay taxes on the whole account. This rule doesn’t apply to surviving spouses, who have more options.

Think of your estate plan as a gift to loved ones after you’ve passed. Without one, they may need to go to court, wait months or years to receive their inheritance or devote endless hours working on gaining control and distributing assets. Talk with an experienced estate planning attorney to protect your family and legacy.

Reference: Kiplinger (Oct. 1, 2024) “The Basics of Estate Planning”

Caregiving and Estate Planning Provides Peace of Mind for All Generations

If your goal is to keep the farm, ranch, or small business in the family, planning, including estate planning and caregiving, is the number one strategy to making it happen. Families may dissolve the farm or business without advance planning to pay for long-term care expenses. A recent article from AgWeek, “Caregiving plans can provide peace of mind for farming and ranching families,” explains what needs to be done.

Part of the issue is that most ranchers and business owners won’t qualify for Medicaid because they own a significant asset. Having to sell off something they’ve worked their entire lives to build is often a result of no planning.

If you have a long-term care insurance policy, it needs to be carefully reviewed to determine what conditions need to be met for benefits to be paid. For example, most policies have a “waiting period,” so you’ll need to plan how to pay for caregiving during the months before the policy kicks in.

There’s also confusion about the difference between Medicare and Medicaid. Medicare is health insurance for medical expenses, while Medicaid is usually used for long-term care and caregiving needs. However, Medicaid is a needs-based program. An estate planning attorney can help the family determine what needs to happen in advance, whether the goal is to protect the farm, ranch, or small business while helping the aging parent become eligible for Medicaid.

Estate planning includes planning for incapacity, which can occur at any time but is more likely as we age. Suppose the individual hasn’t completed a power of attorney, healthcare power of attorney, and other medical directives. In that case, the family will need to go to court to obtain conservatorship or guardianship to take over the person’s financial matters and make healthcare decisions on their behalf. An estate planning attorney can help the family prepare the documents and create a plan.

Having an estate plan in place is also another means of protecting the family’s assets from elder abuse. Everything needs to be documented, and records need to be well-organized so every family member knows where documents are, where assets are and the plan for the inevitable events of aging.

Meeting with an estate planning attorney to create the last will and testament, power of attorney and all other planning documents can minimize the stress and costs involved. Without planning, everything becomes far more complicated, costly and stressful for all concerned.

Reference: AgWeek (May 14, 2024) “Caregiving plans can provide peace of mind for farming and ranching families”

Will I Need to Pay Taxes on Inheritance?

It happens all too often: a couple has an estate plan created, including a last will, upon the birth of their first child. However, it’s never updated when a second child is born. Or a man neglects to update his named beneficiary on a retirement account after he and his first spouse divorce. Failing to update wills or beneficiary assignments results in problematic situations for heirs, according to the article “Inheritance Tax: What Happens When You Split What You Inherit With Someone Outside of the Will?” from Go Banking Rates.

When someone inherits money or other assets, they sometimes must pay taxes on it—if they live in one of only six states still having an inheritance tax. Those states are Iowa, Kentucky, Nebraska, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Maryland.

The taxes range from 0% to 16% on assets with a value greater than the state threshold. The rates also vary depending on the relationship between the decedent and their heir.

If you live in Nebraska, as of 2023, any immediate family members must pay a 1% tax on inherited assets if the estate is valued at more than $100,000. Heirs not immediate family members must pay 11% for assets valued over $40,000 and 15% for assets worth more than $25,000.

If you live in Pennsylvania and are a minor child under age 21 or a spouse, you don’t need to pay an inheritance tax. However, children of the decedent do have to pay one.

Inheritance tax is different than estate tax. The federal government doesn’t levy an inheritance tax but has an estate tax. Heirs pay the inheritance tax, while the deceased person's estate pays estate taxes.

To get a rough idea of the estate’s value, the executor adds up the fair market value of all assets the decedent owns, including property, cash, investments, cash and insurance. The executor must next add all liabilities: credit cards, mortgages, car loans, etc. Subtracting the total liabilities from the assets results in the value of the net estate. An estate planning attorney will be able to help determine an accurate value.

In 2024, the threshold for estate tax is $13,610,000, paid only by a few Americans.

Some states also have an estate tax. This includes Connecticut, Hawaii, Illinois, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Minnesota, New York, Oregon, Rhode Island, Vermont, and Washington. State estate taxes vary considerably, from as low as 0.8% to 20%. A local estate planning attorney will know your state’s estate tax and how to structure your estate plan to limit tax liabilities.

Inherited property is taxable if you sell it for more than it was worth when it was first inherited. Let’s say someone leaves you a valuable sailboat with a fair market value of $100,000 when you inherit it. If you don’t want it and sell it for $200,000, you have a capital gain of $100,000. You’ll likely owe capital gains tax on the difference.

If someone neglected to update their estate plan and a sibling was left out of the will, you can make them whole by sharing the estate. However, you’ll have to inherit the asset first and then determine how to distribute it. An estate planning attorney is the best resource to solve this problem.

Reference: Go Banking Rates (April 8, 2024) “Inheritance Tax: What Happens When You Split What You Inherit With Someone Outside of the Will?”

What Questions to Ask before a Mid-Life Marriage?

Today’s wedding couple is as likely to be 30 or 50 years old as they are to be in their twenties. This trend underscores the importance of having open discussions about finances and retirement before exchanging vows. A recent article from Next Avenue, “The Talk Over-50s Should Have Before Tying the Knot.” Whether you’re getting married for the first time or the second, being closer to retirement has major financial implications.

The most important thing is to disclose each person’s financial situation completely. For some people, this includes their retirement goals and lifestyle choices. What are the potential healthcare issues? Is there debt to be considered? How are each managing their investments?

If both people own homes, a plan for going forward needs to ask a simple question: where will the couple live? Will one sell their home or turn it into a rental property? If it is sold, will the seller retain all the income, or will they buy into ownership of the joint residence? Emotional attachments to homes can make this a difficult discussion, but it needs to be addressed.

Getting married changes each spouse’s legal status, meaning estate plans must be updated. If both have an existing estate plan, it needs to be reviewed. Powers of Attorney, Healthcare Proxy, and other estate planning documents must also be updated.

While reviewing and revising estate plans, don’t neglect to check on any accounts with named beneficiaries. More than a few ex-spouses have received insurance proceeds or accounts because someone neglected to update these accounts. The named beneficiary overrides anything in your will, which is critical to updating the estate plan.

If you both have children from prior marriages, meeting with an estate planning attorney to determine how to manage property distribution is another critical step before getting married. You may wish to create and fund trusts before marriage, so assets remain separate property. There are as many different types of trusts as there are family situations, from keeping assets separate to providing for a surviving spouse while ensuring biological children receive their inheritance (SLAT), or family trusts where assets are moved into the trust for the surviving spouse to allocate assets to heirs based on their needs.

Social Security planning should also be part of the discussion. If one spouse is a widow who was receiving survivor benefits, they could lose those benefits when they get married.

Talk with an estate planning attorney before getting married to fully understand your situation and ensure you and your spouse are ready for the changes and challenges of your senior years together.

Reference: Next Avenue (March 14, 2024) “The Talk Over-50s Should Have Before Tying the Knot”